How do you ask a guy out? Asking someone out can be a very awkward and fearful experience.
I’ve never officially asked a guy out on a date, but I did come pretty close. I liked this guy who attended my school and I wanted to get closer to him.
I spent days trying to figure out the right way to tell him that I was interested in him. I finally decided to write yes, no, maybe on a sheet of paper as answer choices to my question asking, “Would you like to be my friend?”
I then took a picture of the paper and texted it to him. He took forever to respond. When he finally did it was not the yes answer that I had hoped for. I was sad and embarrassed. After taking some time to talk to a few people who knew him better than I did, I realize that perhaps that wasn’t the best way to approach him.
When deciding to ask a guy out, you want to be sure that you go about it in the right way. Approach is everything. Knowing about his astrology sign can help give you an idea of the best way to ask him out which can result in a lesser chance of getting turned down.
And if he then asks you out after that first date — bonus!
Astrology does this by showing the influence of the planets and the universe on humans and life. Astrology helps to explain a person’s personality which can be used to predict future events in their life.
This includes how your zodiac sign attracts the guy you like as well as what it will be like to date him. You can even get an idea of how he will respond to you asking him out.
Per astrology, here is how you should best go about asking the guy you’re interested in out on a date, by horoscope date.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
Aries men are attracted to strong and confident women. He is constantly in search for something new and exciting, so when you see him write your number down on his hand and dare him to call you by the end of the day so you can give him the details for the date you planned.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
Taurus men get easily scared when it comes to asking someone out, so you will already get cool points for taking some initiative. Food is the way to his heart, so you can’t go wrong inviting him over for a nice home-cooked meal.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
Gemini’s are flirtatious and social beings. Gemini men will accept your invitation to anything that sounds interesting, so invite him out for drinks at a popular restaurant. This will give him the public setting that he enjoys and will allow you both to loosen up and take off the first date pressures.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
A Cancer man needs you to ask him out while still making it come off as his idea. So when you see him you can casually bring up how much you love cooking and how you’ve been dying have someone try out some new recipes with you. He not only enjoys cooking, but enjoys being at home…an intimate atmosphere. He won’t be able to resist volunteering to be the test taster.
LEO (July 23 – August 22)
There is nothing a Leo loves more than big and dramatic plans. Wait until he is in front of a group of people, then confidently walk up to him and tell him that you have purchased two tickets to the theater. Proceed to tell him that you have decided he would be the perfect plus one. To add some extra flare tell him what time he needs to be ready for you to pick him up.
VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
A Virgos biggest mission in life is to fix something. He prides himself on making good use of his hands, so ask him to come over and help you restore something in your backyard. This could be anything from an old bike to a swing or a garden. He will be eager to show you how useful he can be.
LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
Libras enjoy going to fancy places that allow them to dress up. Tell him dust off his best suit and tie because he’ll be your date to the opening of an upscale art gallery. He will appreciate you understanding that his life needs to be enriched by beautiful things and that you don’t mind showing him off in public.
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
Scorpio men like girls who are mysterious. The easiest way you can do this is by playing hard to get. Turn asking him out into a game by sending him on a scavenger hunt that ends with him winning a valuable prize… a date with you. He is turned on by the chase and will accept any challenge in hopes of capturing you.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
Men born under the Sagittarius astrology sign love adventure. He enjoys traveling and never turns down a chance to explore different places to get a better understanding of the meaning of life. Use knowing this to your advantage and ask him to go on a trip to a nearby town with you.
CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorn men are ambitious, and focus nearly all of their time and energy on reaching his goals. Romance isn’t at the top of his list of priorities, so you will have to disguise your date. Ask him to come over to create a vision board with you. Explain that you are working on staying motivated to achieve your goals, and ask him to come over and create a vision board with you.
AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
Be cool in your approach to ask an Aquarius man out. Do this by inviting him to do something that isn’t considered too intimate or emotional, like volunteering. He enjoys participating in activities that make the world a better place, so mention that you plan on volunteering at a local shelter over the weekend and ask if he would like to join you.
PISCES (February 19 – March 20)
Pisces men are known for going on romantic and unplanned dates. Randomly text him and ask him to meet you at the nearest park where you will be waiting for him. Come prepared with a blanket, food and other necessary items to have a nice picnic. He won’t even process that you have just pulled a “him” and sucked him into going out with you.
Alexis George is a writer who covers love, relationship advice, astrology and personality topics.