When it comes to learning how to attract men, there are ways you can learn the secrets of getting his attention with nothing more than a knowledge of how to use your body language.
The signs of attraction aren’t hard to read if you know what you’re looking for, and getting a man to notice you doesn’t have to be difficult.
Do you ever feel uptight, nervous or anxious around a particular man you’re attracted to and wish there was a way you could just relax and feel more confident?
What if you could walk into a room and completely take command of a man simply by the way you walk, stand, and carry yourself?
Wouldn’t it feel so liberating to be able to attract a man simply by being yourself, simply by letting go of any negative thoughts or fears, and just relax into the most self-assured, positive and magnetic you?
It’s totally do-able!
Here’s how you can learn to make small changes that will completely change your energy and make you magnetic to any man you meet:
1. Emulate women with great charisma.
A woman who lights up a room with her radiance and energy. A woman who men gravitate toward and follow. A woman who always seems to have men following her, listening to her, and laughing with her.
She has a kind of natural charisma, or she’s been blessed with a great “look.” Everything seems to come easily to her
You don’t need to have natural charisma or be born with “model” looks to get what you want or to attract the man you want and have a great life. Great charisma and radiant, magnetic energy is something that you can learn.
2. Learn how to look naturally and completely “you.”
You can actually have a natural, “organic” transformation through an easy, step-by-step process. It doesn’t have to be or feel fake, although most changes feel awkward at first, and that’s OK.
It’s not about contorting yourself to be someone you’re not. It’s about dropping the defenses and false beliefs you’ve been holding all your life and letting your true, natural feminine power shine through.
To demonstrate what I’m talking about, here’s just one basic tip about how to improve your confidence and energy by making just a small change in a certain facial muscle: Your lips.
3. Be aware of the way your mouth moves.
You may not have noticed this, but when you’re feeling tense or nervous, you press your lips together.
Try it right now.
Think about a recent conversation or event that completely threw you off balance and angered you, or made you anxious. Like when he called to cancel a date you were looking forward to. Or he turned his back on you when you needed to talk, or vent.
Are you imagining something like that? Now…
Notice how your lips oh-so-slightly press together. They tense up and your mouth looks smaller and tighter.
Now think about something sensual, relaxing. Really get into the visual. Maybe you’re imagining petting your dog or cat. Maybe you’re imagining your man telling you he loves you and he’s stroking your hair.
How does that change the way your lips feel? Are they relaxed and slightly parted?
4. Learn how to tap into your feminine softness.
When you’re feeling stressed, anxious, tense, do something that feels counter-intuitive.
Relax your lips, and part them slightly. You’ll notice an immediate simultaneous shift in your “energy” from tense to calm. But more importantly, this remarkable technique can also make you appear more relaxed and self-confident, even when you’re in a very tense situation. Like on a date, or having an emotional conversation with your boyfriend.
Looking more self-confident and relaxed opens you up and sends the signal that you’re open and vulnerable — which is actually an irresistible visual “signal” to a man.
Isn’t that something? Any woman can learn how to become more attractive and magnetic simply by tapping into her natural inner beauty and feminine energy. Men are drawn and magnetized to a woman when she’s relaxed, vulnerable, soft on the outside, but strong on the inside.
Rori Raye is a trained relationship coach who teaches women how to attract the right man and have the kind of close, connected relationship they’ve dreamed of. To learn specific ways to relate to a man, from the early stages of dating all the way through a blissful commitment, subscribe to Rori’s free newsletter.
This article was originally published at Have the Relationship You Want. Reprinted with permission from the author.