I decided to see what it would be like to use a dating app that is designed to bring lesbian women together as potential partners. I wanted to see what women want, what they seek in other women, and what their ultimate goals were.
Guess what? The vibe was absolutely, one hundred million percent different in attitude than an all heterosexual dating sites. Much less aggressive. Women don’t seem to place much of an emphasis on beating down; ironically, they seem to want and crave warmth, intelligence, trust and love.
Who makes the first move? Apparently, on either site, it’s the more aggressive of the players — the one who has the nerve to take a chance on either being rejected or accepted. And with astrology, the same goes for the zodiac signs who make the first move.
Sometimes, making the first move is spontaneous. It’s one of those things that happens without thinking, because too much thinking can definitely ruin almost any moment.
1. CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorn is the ultimate business lunch date. It’s all brass tacks and “just the facts, ma’am: with them.
If making a move is what’s on their to-do list, they will make that first move, check the box next to it on the list, and move on with the next item. There is very little emotion attached to their actions. Just ‘git er done, that’s the Capricorn way.
2. LEO (July 23 – August 22)
Typically, Leo goes after what they want with precision and exactitude. They are focused and know nothing of the word “no.” No means yes to Leo, and that serves to bolster their false sense of confidence.
Leo may have the moves, but those moves tend to be obnoxious and selfish. They may be the first to start things up, but you will be the first to leave.
3. SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
Naturally aggressive, Scorpio doesn’t see the point in waiting for you to make the first move. They know what they want and they know the only way to get it is by making the first move — get the ball rolling, so to speak.
They may be a bit too much at first, but that’s just a part of the Scorpio charm. They’ll kill you with kindness… after they’ve mowed you down with attention.
4. TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
There’s no such a thing as a shy Taurus, but if there is one, they will be on the receiving end of the pushier Taurus who wants to make the move now. This sign is not about being polite or even flirtatious; they are honest, upfront and usually what they want is your complete attention, without end.
Don’t worry about being shy around Taurus because they have enough personality for the two of you.
5. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
Being that Sagittarius is big into honesty and the truth, they see things in a fairly black and white manner. Meaning, if there’s a move to be made and the two of you are just clamoring around not making that move, Sag will step in and put things into action.
And while they may feel inhibited or shy, they fully give themselves over to the adrenaline rush of being the first to make a move.
6. ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
What’s the point of waiting? For Aries, there’s no time like the present, and that means the moves will be made right this very second, whether you’re ready to receive them or not.
Aries is aggressive. They are born to take what they believe is theirs, which may not necessarily by what you are willing to share. But this isn’t about you, is it? It’s all about Aries.
Ruby Miranda is a New Yorker who learned astrology, I Ching and all types of cartomancy and numerology from her crazy, gypsy mother. She currently writes for a wide range of esoteric publications.